Mom of two VR miracle babies after 40, retired Air Force veteran, and holistic fertility coach—I love helping couples bring their own miracle babies into the world. When I’m not podcasting or coaching, you’ll find me homeschooling, planning retreats, or having spontaneous kitchen dance parties with my kids.
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If you’re on the journey of trying to conceive after a vasectomy reversal, you’re probably wondering: Did it work? Is the reversal successful? One of the most important ways to get answers is through a semen analysis. But let’s be real—it’s not exactly a fun or comfortable part of the process. Maybe your doctor didn’t explain why it’s necessary, maybe the logistics of getting it done feel overwhelming, or maybe you’re just nervous about the results.
In this episode, I sat down with Dr. James Smith, a professor of urology at UCSF and the Chief Medical Officer of Fellow Health, to break down everything you need to know about semen analysis after vasectomy reversal. We covered why it matters, what makes a high-quality test, and how you can improve sperm health naturally.
A vasectomy reversal is a major step toward restoring fertility, but success is not guaranteed overnight. Your body needs time to heal, and sperm needs time to start moving through the newly reconnected pathways. A semen analysis helps track progress and catches any potential issues early so you don’t waste months wondering why you’re not conceiving.
Here’s what a semen analysis tells you:
Dr. Smith pointed out that too many men skip or delay their semen analysis out of embarrassment or inconvenience. But getting regular testing done at four weeks, eight weeks, and beyond helps catch potential roadblocks early so you don’t waste time.
Not all semen tests are created equal. Dr. Smith emphasized that where and how you get your analysis done matters. Some labs do not test for sperm at lower levels, which means you could get a report saying “zero sperm” when in reality, there are some—just at lower concentrations.
Some factors that can throw off results include:
Dr. Smith stressed the importance of choosing a high-quality lab like Fellow Health, which ensures accuracy and makes at-home semen analysis convenient without the awkward lab visits.
If your semen analysis results are not great, don’t panic. The good news is that sperm regenerates every three months, meaning what you do today can directly impact your fertility in the coming months.
Here are some key factors that improve sperm health:
Small, consistent changes can make a huge difference over time.
If your results are not what you hoped for, it does not mean the journey is over. Many men panic when they see a low count or motility percentage, but these numbers are not permanent.
Here’s what Dr. Smith recommends if your results are not ideal:
Dr. Smith emphasized that early testing and consistent tracking help couples make informed decisions—whether that means continuing naturally or exploring medical options.
Navigating semen analysis after a vasectomy reversal can feel overwhelming, but the more you know, the more empowered you are.
If you are feeling stuck, here are some next steps:
Dr. Smith’s biggest takeaway was that the sooner you gather the right information, the sooner you can take the best next steps for your fertility journey.
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Have you ever felt called to something so deeply by God, yet the path to get there seemed uncertain or even impossible? If you’ve been on the rollercoaster of trying to conceive after a vasectomy reversal, you’re not alone. My husband and I have walked this journey—through hope, heartbreak, and a two-year wait filled with challenges that tested our faith and perseverance.
This blog post shares our story, a testament to trusting God’s plan, navigating the struggles of infertility, and ultimately welcoming our miracle baby into the world. If you’re feeling frustrated, exhausted, or wondering if it will ever happen for you, I hope our journey will bring you encouragement, practical insights, and renewed faith.
When my husband and I met in 2008, blending our family meant raising five kids together. At the time, we were sure our family was complete. A vasectomy seemed like the right choice, a practical decision for a growing family with no plans for more children.
Fast forward seven years, and something shifted. As our children grew older, I felt a longing that I couldn’t shake—the desire to nurture and love another child. Adoption seemed like the answer. I spent countless hours researching, and my heart broke reading stories of children who desperately needed homes.
One night, my husband said something that changed everything: “Wouldn’t it be cheaper to have one of our own?” It was a lighthearted comment, but it sparked a deep conversation. That same week, God placed the desire for another child on both our hearts, and we knew it wasn’t just coincidence—it was a calling.
Vasectomy reversal wasn’t something we had ever considered. After a lot of research, we found Dr. Sheldon Marks, a specialist renowned for helping couples conceive after vasectomy reversals. Financially, it seemed impossible. Yet, through God’s provision, the exact amount of our tax refund matched the cost of the procedure. It was the first of many moments that reminded us God was in control.
The surgery was successful, and we were filled with hope. But as the months turned into years, that hope was tested.
The wait was brutal. Each month brought another negative test, and I began questioning if something was wrong with me. At 39, time felt like an enemy. After months of no progress, I experienced a miscarriage—a devastating loss that left me broken and questioning everything.
During a season of waiting and military deployments, I leaned heavily into my faith. I clung to Jeremiah 29:11:
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
Despite the heartbreak, I started practicing gratitude daily, shifting my focus to the blessings around me. It wasn’t easy, but it transformed my perspective.
After a failed round of IUI and side effects from fertility medications, I realized I was trying to take control of something that belonged in God’s hands. We decided to stop medical treatments and focus on holistic health—nourishing our bodies, reducing stress, and trusting in God’s timing.
In March 2020, as the world shut down, something miraculous happened: I got a positive pregnancy test. Looking back, I see how God orchestrated everything perfectly. He used that quiet season to give me time to rest, rejuvenate, and prepare for the arrival of our miracle baby.
On December 23, 2020, we welcomed Emma into the world. Her name means “My God has answered,” and she is a constant reminder of God’s faithfulness. Waiting for her taught us invaluable lessons about patience, trust, and leaning on God in uncertain times.
If you’re walking the path of trying to conceive after a vasectomy reversal, I see you. The waiting, the heartbreak, and the longing can feel overwhelming. But know this: God placed the desire for a child on your heart for a reason. His plans are greater than anything we can imagine, and He is with you every step of the way.
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