Mom of two VR miracle babies after 40, retired Air Force veteran, and holistic fertility coach—I love helping couples bring their own miracle babies into the world. When I’m not podcasting or coaching, you’ll find me homeschooling, planning retreats, or having spontaneous kitchen dance parties with my kids.
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If you’ve ever laughed a little too hard and leaked or felt like your body just isn’t as strong as it used to be, you’re not alone. Core and pelvic floor health are some of the most overlooked aspects of women’s wellness, yet they impact everything from fertility to postpartum recovery.
Dr. Jena Bradley, a physical therapist and mom of four, has made it her mission to help moms strengthen their bodies in a way that fits into their busy lives. In this conversation, we cover:
Whether you’re just starting your fitness journey or looking to regain strength after pregnancy, these tips will help you feel more confident in your body.
Most women don’t think about core exercises when trying to conceive, but strengthening your body before pregnancy can help with:
Dr. Jena explains that core training isn’t just about fitness—it’s about preparing your body for the changes ahead.
One of the biggest mistakes women make is skipping core and pelvic floor work until after they have a baby. But the truth is, building strength before pregnancy can lead to better outcomes during labor and postpartum recovery.
Box breathing is a simple way to engage your deep core muscles while lowering stress. Try this:
This technique not only strengthens your core but also calms your nervous system, which is essential for fertility.
Kegels are often the go-to, but proper pelvic floor training involves more than just squeezing. A full range of motion—contracting and relaxing—is key for:
Dr. Jena shares that many women don’t even know if they’re doing Kegels correctly. If you experience discomfort, pain, or chronic tightness, working with a pelvic floor specialist can be life-changing.
Traditional crunches aren’t the answer for pregnancy-safe core work. Instead, focus on exercises that activate the deep core, like:
These movements help prepare your body for pregnancy while making postpartum recovery smoother.
Healing after pregnancy looks different for everyone, but one thing is certain—rebuilding core strength is essential for feeling your best. Dr. Jena emphasizes that rushing back into workouts without rebuilding your foundation can lead to:
Instead of jumping into high-impact workouts, focus on gentle movements that restore strength from the inside out. Dr. Jena’s program Postpartum Ab Rehab is designed to guide women through this process step by step.
It’s easy to put workouts on the back burner when life gets busy, but the truth is, your body and health matter too.
Dr. Jena suggests:
The key is to build momentum, not perfection. As Dr. Jena puts it, consistency beats intensity every time.
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Have you ever felt called to something so deeply by God, yet the path to get there seemed uncertain or even impossible? If you’ve been on the rollercoaster of trying to conceive after a vasectomy reversal, you’re not alone. My husband and I have walked this journey—through hope, heartbreak, and a two-year wait filled with challenges that tested our faith and perseverance.
This blog post shares our story, a testament to trusting God’s plan, navigating the struggles of infertility, and ultimately welcoming our miracle baby into the world. If you’re feeling frustrated, exhausted, or wondering if it will ever happen for you, I hope our journey will bring you encouragement, practical insights, and renewed faith.
When my husband and I met in 2008, blending our family meant raising five kids together. At the time, we were sure our family was complete. A vasectomy seemed like the right choice, a practical decision for a growing family with no plans for more children.
Fast forward seven years, and something shifted. As our children grew older, I felt a longing that I couldn’t shake—the desire to nurture and love another child. Adoption seemed like the answer. I spent countless hours researching, and my heart broke reading stories of children who desperately needed homes.
One night, my husband said something that changed everything: “Wouldn’t it be cheaper to have one of our own?” It was a lighthearted comment, but it sparked a deep conversation. That same week, God placed the desire for another child on both our hearts, and we knew it wasn’t just coincidence—it was a calling.
Vasectomy reversal wasn’t something we had ever considered. After a lot of research, we found Dr. Sheldon Marks, a specialist renowned for helping couples conceive after vasectomy reversals. Financially, it seemed impossible. Yet, through God’s provision, the exact amount of our tax refund matched the cost of the procedure. It was the first of many moments that reminded us God was in control.
The surgery was successful, and we were filled with hope. But as the months turned into years, that hope was tested.
The wait was brutal. Each month brought another negative test, and I began questioning if something was wrong with me. At 39, time felt like an enemy. After months of no progress, I experienced a miscarriage—a devastating loss that left me broken and questioning everything.
During a season of waiting and military deployments, I leaned heavily into my faith. I clung to Jeremiah 29:11:
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
Despite the heartbreak, I started practicing gratitude daily, shifting my focus to the blessings around me. It wasn’t easy, but it transformed my perspective.
After a failed round of IUI and side effects from fertility medications, I realized I was trying to take control of something that belonged in God’s hands. We decided to stop medical treatments and focus on holistic health—nourishing our bodies, reducing stress, and trusting in God’s timing.
In March 2020, as the world shut down, something miraculous happened: I got a positive pregnancy test. Looking back, I see how God orchestrated everything perfectly. He used that quiet season to give me time to rest, rejuvenate, and prepare for the arrival of our miracle baby.
On December 23, 2020, we welcomed Emma into the world. Her name means “My God has answered,” and she is a constant reminder of God’s faithfulness. Waiting for her taught us invaluable lessons about patience, trust, and leaning on God in uncertain times.
If you’re walking the path of trying to conceive after a vasectomy reversal, I see you. The waiting, the heartbreak, and the longing can feel overwhelming. But know this: God placed the desire for a child on your heart for a reason. His plans are greater than anything we can imagine, and He is with you every step of the way.
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