Mom of two VR miracle babies after 40, retired Air Force veteran, and holistic fertility coach—I love helping couples bring their own miracle babies into the world. When I’m not podcasting or coaching, you’ll find me homeschooling, planning retreats, or having spontaneous kitchen dance parties with my kids.
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If your supplement drawer is overflowing but your pregnancy test is still negative, you’re not alone.
I talk to couples all the time who are doing everything right—CoQ10, prenatals, antioxidants, detoxes. But they still aren’t seeing results. Cycles are off. Sperm counts are low. Energy is depleted.
So let’s talk about what might be missing.
Here’s the truth: no supplement can override poor cellular function.
You can take all the right nutrients, but if your mitochondria are sluggish, if your body is inflamed, or if you’re stuck in fight-or-flight mode, those pills aren’t going to move the needle.
Supplements aren’t magic. And without a strong foundation—think sleep, blood sugar, gut health, and nervous system regulation—they may become just expensive Band-Aids.
Mitochondria are the power plants of your cells. They create the ATP energy needed for:
Here’s something wild: the egg is the most mitochondria-rich cell in the body. Sperm need strong mitochondria to swim. If these energy centers are burned out, your fertility will struggle—even if everything “looks good” on paper.
Phototherapy—also called light therapy—is a non-invasive way to stimulate your body’s natural healing responses using specific wavelengths of light.
The patches I use and recommend don’t add anything into your body. Instead, they reflect your own infrared light back into specific points on the skin to activate biological processes like:
This gentle approach can be incredibly effective for fertility. Here’s how it helps:
Eggs and sperm both develop over a roughly 90-day cycle.
That means what you’re doing right now can impact your chances of conception three months from now. You don’t need to be perfect—but you do need to be consistent, intentional, and aware of what’s helping… and what’s not.
Before adding another capsule to your protocol, ask yourself:
When the body feels safe, supported, and nourished, fertility improves naturally. And when you combine that foundation with tools like phototherapy, the results can be incredible.
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