Mom of two VR miracle babies after 40, retired Air Force veteran, and holistic fertility coach—I love helping couples bring their own miracle babies into the world. When I’m not podcasting or coaching, you’ll find me homeschooling, planning retreats, or having spontaneous kitchen dance parties with my kids.
Feeling lost after your vasectomy reversal? The VR Baby Blueprint is a 1:1 coaching program designed to help you optimize fertility, understand what your body needs, and finally get real answers—so you can stop feeling stuck and start moving closer to holding your baby in your arms.
Fertility struggles test more than just your patience—they test your faith, your resilience, and your ability to trust in a plan bigger than your own. For many couples trying to conceive after a vasectomy reversal, the road to parenthood is filled with uncertainty, waiting, and setbacks. But as Hannah’s story shows, sometimes what feels like unanswered prayers is really God setting the stage for something greater than we could ever imagine.
Hannah’s journey began like many others: newly married, she initially wanted to wait to have kids, but an unexpected miscarriage changed everything. What followed was years of trying to conceive, struggling with endometriosis, undergoing surgery, and ultimately deciding to pursue adoption. But even that didn’t go as planned. The emotional rollercoaster of waiting, fighting for a baby in court, and then losing that adoption left Hannah questioning everything. Why would God allow her to get so close to becoming a mother, only to have it taken away?
Then, just one week after losing the adoption, Hannah found out she was pregnant—after five long years of trying. The miracle she had prayed for had arrived in the most unexpected way. But the journey wasn’t over. Her pregnancy was complicated, culminating in a dangerous medical emergency that left her hospitalized and separated from her newborn son.
Still, despite the hardships, Hannah and her husband continued to believe that their family wasn’t complete. Once again, they faced infertility, turned to fertility treatments, and even walked the painful path of miscarriage. But as before, God was working behind the scenes. Through a family connection, they were led to adopt a baby girl—just months after their heartbreaking loss. And in a full-circle moment, the daughter they adopted was the very thing that made them realize just how divinely orchestrated their story truly was.
For couples in the middle of their fertility wait, Hannah’s story offers profound encouragement. The waiting season isn’t just about enduring—it’s about preparing. God isn’t withholding your baby as a punishment. He’s using this time to strengthen you, to refine your faith, and to align things in ways you can’t yet see.
Hannah spoke candidly about the moments she was angry with God, questioning why she had to wait so long when others seemed to conceive effortlessly. But looking back, she sees the purpose in every delay. If she had gotten pregnant earlier, she might not have pursued adoption. If her first adoption had gone through, she might never have adopted her daughter. The things she once saw as losses were really God’s way of redirecting her to something even better.
This perspective shift is so important in fertility. It’s easy to feel like you’re running out of time, but what if the wait is actually making room for the exact miracle you’re praying for?
One of the most powerful takeaways from Hannah’s story is the importance of faith—not just believing that God can do something, but believing that He will. She talked about the moment she truly let go of control, stopped obsessing over tracking symptoms, and started living as though she was already a mother. That shift in mindset, from desperation to trust, changed everything.
It’s a reminder that your words and thoughts matter. If you’re constantly telling yourself it’s never going to happen, your mind and body will follow. But if you start living in faith—preparing for your baby, speaking life over your fertility, and trusting God’s promises—your entire outlook changes.
or those navigating fertility after vasectomy reversal, Hannah’s story is a beacon of hope. It’s proof that even when it feels like God is silent, He is moving. Whether your journey includes medical intervention, lifestyle changes, or a long season of waiting, know that He sees you. Your prayers are heard. Your desires are known. And just like Hannah, you might find that when you least expect it, your miracle is already on its way.
If you’re struggling to hold onto hope, I invite you to take the next step in your journey with me. Whether it’s understanding your fertility more deeply, creating a personalized plan, or simply having a space to process your emotions, you don’t have to do this alone.
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